I will never forget the first time Emily brought Daniel home to meet the family.

It was three years ago, on a suffocating July afternoon in Savannah, and our historic mansion on Gaston Street was filled with the scent of magnolias and old money.

My husband’s people have been pillars of this town since before the Civil War.

They own cotton warehouses turned into law offices, pews named after them at St. John’s Church, and tables permanently reserved at the Savannah Yacht Club.

So when Emily walked through the mahogany front door holding hands with a young man in a simple navy polo shirt and work boots, you could hear the ice cubes stop clinking in the bourbon glasses.